Anonymous: Cody can i have some advice, i love talking to this girl but the most recent conversation we had was kind of dead. I really like her, how can i keep having enjoyable conversations with her? Any advice? Also, how can i tell her i like her without sounding like a creep? Answer privately please if you can..
Well since this is anon I can’t answer privately lol.
I’m not an expert, but I’ll give you the best advice I can. I’d start with finding things you have in common and what you both like, then build from there. Try to show her you enjoy talking to her, but don’t attempt to talk to her ALL the time. Conversations will tend to die out the longer they get, so try to be spontaneous if you want to keep talking. Also, trying not to sound negative or anything, don’t try too hard if she’s short with you or stops talking to you because she may not feel the same way. You don’t want to get your hopes up for things like that because I’ve been in that situation and you chase and chase, then you get nothing from it but being let down. It’s not always easy telling someone you like them, but it’s best to just tell them straight up instead of beating around the bush because you’re just making that more stressful on yourself. Even if you don’t get the answer you wanted at least you tried, right?